I’m Becky, a mother of four and a proud military spouse. I live by the coast in Scotland, where the beach is my happy place. I’m an avid reader who loves getting lost in a good book, and I unapologetically keep my chocolate in the freezer. I’m also a Eurovision fan, and I stand by both of those “controversial” choices!
One of my core beliefs is that every birthday should include a caterpillar cake. I’m an introvert at heart, but when I’m with my people, I come alive. I can sign, and I previously worked at a college interpreting for students who use British Sign Language.
These days, I’m lucky to have a job I truly love — one where every child I work with teaches me something new.
What’s Not in My Toolbox
When it comes to my professional skill set, I’d like to start by sharing a couple of things I don’t have.
A crystal ball – Unfortunately, I can’t see the future or read minds. What I can do is listen — really listen — to people’s perspectives and experiences to better understand the dynamics of a situation. This helps me work out the most appropriate support plan or approach for a child and their family. It also helps me recognise when I’m the right person to help, or when it might be best to guide you towards someone else.
While I may not have a crystal ball, I do have the privilege of earning the trust of those who share their life experiences, skills, and professional knowledge with me. Often, these are shared with great vulnerability (which I also see as a form of strength), and I’m deeply grateful for the connection that my work allows.
A magic wand – Sadly, there are no true “quick fixes” in life — and play therapy is no exception. Children come to therapy for many different reasons, often carrying a complex mix of emotions and experiences. I believe that every child (and adult) already holds the power and ability to heal; sometimes, they simply need the right environment to do so.
Play is our first language. Through play and creativity, a new form of expression becomes possible — one that reaches parts of the brain and heart that words and logic sometimes can’t. Within the safety of a consistent setting and a trusting relationship, this “language” of play can be profoundly healing.
In fact, I do have a magic wand in my play kit — but the real magic lies not in the wand or in me. It’s in the imagination of the child who chooses it.
What is in My Toolbox
Although I can’t predict the future, read minds, or change situations with a swish of a wand, here’s what I do bring to my work:
- A non-judgemental, empathic approach — and a genuine desire to understand your situation so I can support you in the best possible way.
- Postgraduate qualifications in Play Therapy, Social Work, and British Sign Language.
- A strong ethical foundation and a deep commitment to my clients.
- A child-centred approach — because there’s no “one size fits all” for children or families.
- A love of learning — I’m committed to ongoing professional development, always inspired by what each client teaches me.
- Buckets of creativity.
- A belief in the power of connection, play, and human resilience. Even in times of deep pain, I hold hope — especially when it feels hard for my clients to do so themselves.
- Patience and trust in the therapeutic process.
If you’d like to learn more about Play Therapy or explore how it might help, you can find out more here or get in touch.
